if u have an old style modem then just plug it straight in to ur ps3 dont use a router as a router will try sending packets to all ur stuff u run on the router and store all the cashese there is sent and slow down the sending of the packets witch causes lag
so if u have a old style modem that is just a modem not a modem and router built as one it needs to be just a old modem with just pluged straight into the ps3 this will solve most of the problems wit lag i done this last night and my good i was going 30/6 in most games compared to my usual 12 /18 so if u guys have a modem and router separate then just use the modem while playing the game if u can